I’m going to send them to his birth father. It always takes me hours to find an appropriate card for him. There’s not a “Thanks for trusting me and giving me the greatest blessing I could ever have, and by the way please don’t share these with the baby’s birth mother because I am scared of her” cards. I just end up with something stupid with a dog on the front and a goofy rhyme inside.
All of us adoptive parents should go into the card making business.